Cyprus Etiquette Tips
If invited to a Cypriot's home
in Cyprus, you may want to bring your host a gift.
If you wish to do so, remember to avoid giving
white lilies! In Cypriot culture, those are used
for funerals. Traditionally, something edible,
such as pastries, makes a wonderful host gift.
Cyprus is a laid-back and friendly place to
visit. Some visitors from larger countries might
remark that it seems like everyone in Cyprus
knows each other. You'll find that Cypriots
are extremely polite and sometimes somewhat
formal when it comes to interacting with the
elderly or speaking in a professional environment.
In order to fit in with those around you and
to respect Cypriot culture, learn a bit about
their etiquette.
1. What to wear
- DO dress
conservatively if going to a monastery
or church. Men should wear pants and shirts.
Women should wear pants or long skirts
and cover their arms.
- DO wear typical business
attire for meetings, such as dark-colored
suits.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO stand
until told to sit down.
- DO understand that the eldest
person and guest of honor will often be
served first.
- DON'T begin eating until
after the host does.
- DON'T pass dishes with
your left hand; use your right.
- DO finish everything on your
plate.
- DO cross your knife and fork
on your plate with the fork on top of
the knife, if you are still eating.
- DO lay your knife and fork parallel
on the right side of your plate to indicate
that you are done eating.
3. Greetings
- DO shake hands
upon meeting someone, along with a smile.
Generally, it's polite to maintain eye
contact throughout a greeting, thought
some Turkish Cypriots may lower their
eyes as a sign of respect.
- DO understand that religious Muslims
may not shake hands with women.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DON'T
give white lilies. They are for funerals.
- DON'T open your gift upon
receipt. It's customary to do it later.
5. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO shake
hands with everyone.
- DO bring pastries for the host.
- DO compliment your hosts' home.
- DO offer a helping hand to the host
for preparation or clean-up.
6. Business
- DO make
appointments in advance. Have them put
in writing and then confirm by phone.
- DON'T be late! However, expect to be
kept waiting.
- DO be patient. Meetings may not rigidly
follow the agenda and they are likely
to be frequently interrupted.
- DO understand that meetings are to exchange
ideas, not to make decisions.
- DON'T be confrontational.
- DO expect bargaining. Cypriots are master
negotiators! Be flexible.
If you're still not
sure how to act or what the specific etiquette
is in a situation, follow the example of
those around you. Enjoy your trip to Cyprus!
|