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Home » Country Etiquette » New Zealand
New Zealand Etiquette Tips
Flying to Auckland? New Zealanders are friendly and polite. As a guest to their country, return their hospitality by being polite in return. In order to respect those in New Zealand, learn a bit about their culture and etiquette. Below is a list of New Zealand etiquette to help you blend in on your trip to New Zealand.
1. Dress Attire
- DO dress conservatively and formally for business occasions. Men should wear dark suits with a conservative tie and white shirt. Women should wear suits, dresses, or skirts and blouses in modest colors.
- DO wear casual attire for less formal occasions. Keep your clothes neat.
2. Table Manners
- DO keep your hands above the table, but don't put your elbows on the table, either!
- DO put your fork and knife parallel on the plate with the handles facing to the right when you are done eating.
- DON'T be loud and obnoxious while drinking.
- DO expect afternoon tea between 3 and 4 PM. Tea is between 6 and 8 PM, served along with a meal. Supper is a light snack, such as coffee and dessert, and is served later.
3. Tipping
- DON'T Tip, it's not customary in New Zealand. However, if the service was outstanding, a tip is most certainly appreciated!
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DO open your gift upon receipt.
- DO give gifts such as flowers, chocolate, liquor, or a book about your home country.
5. Body Gestures
- DON'T make the "V for Victory" sign.
6. Greetings
- DO exchange handshakes and smiles upon greeting someone. Maintain eye contact during greetings.
- DO wait for a woman to extend her hand for a handshake first.
- DO say "How do you do?" when first meeting someone. Once you get to know a person "Hello" is an acceptable greeting.
7. Visitors Etiquette
- DO bring your hosts a gift.
- DO bring your own beer (B.Y.O.) if invited to a barbecue. You may also be invited to bring your own meat or a salad.
8. Business Meeting
- DO make an appointment at least a week in advance, by fax, phone, or email. Avoid December and January, which is summer vacation in New Zealand.
- DON'T be late! It will make an incredibly bad impression.
- DON'T expect New Zealanders to try to negotiate. It's not part of their culture, so start negotiations realistically.
- DON'T make promises you can't keep or make exaggerated claims.
- DO be direct and honest.
9. Maori & Marae Etiquette
- DO visit a marae, which is a sacred place that serves both social and religious purposes in Maori society. Maori are the indigenous Polynesian people of New Zealand. If you wish to visit a marae, you should do so in an organized marae visit.
- DON'T enter a marae without seeking permission first.
- DO follow the lead of those around you, there is often a protocol to be followed in Maori welcoming and greeting, but the protocol can vary.
- DON'T eat food until it has been blessed.
- DO show your gratitude and respect by singing a song from your home country.
- DO ask permission before photographing Maori buildings or landmarks.
10. Socializing and Conversation
- DO understand that the word "Kiwi" is not an offensive name when referring to New Zealanders. They will call themselves Kiwis, too!
- DON'T confuse New Zealanders with Australians.

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