Hungarian Etiquette Tips
Dining etiquette is somewhat formal
in Hungary. For instance, if you eat everything
off your plate, it indicates that you are still
hungry and you want seconds. If you leave a little
bit of food on your plate, it indicates that you
are full. Same thing with drinking; leave your
drinking glass half full when you no longer want
a refill.
Hungarians put a great emphasis on socializing,
including eating, drinking, and entertainment.
So, when you are out and about and being social,
impress those around you with your knowledge
of Hungarian etiquette. Below are some etiquette
tips to help you out on your trip to Hungary.
1. What to wear
- DO wear formal and
conservative attire for business occasions.
For men, a dark suit with a white shirt
and tie is fine. For women, a suit or
dress is appropriate, along with nice
accessories.
- DO wear jeans for casual
outings. Shorts are not common.
2. Food/Drinks
- DON'T begin eating
until after the host starts.
- DON'T put your elbows
on the table, but don't put your hands
in your lap.
- DO try everything on
your plate.
- DO cross your knife
and fork on your plate if you are still
eating.
- DO put your fork and
knife along the right side of the plate
when full.
- DO give the first toast
if you are the guest of honor. You should
salute the health of everyone there.
- DON'T clink your glass
when drinking beer.
- DO leave a little bit
of food on your plate if you're still
full. An empty plate means that you want
more.
- DO leave a drinking
glass half full if you are done drinking.
- DON'T discuss business
during a meal.
3. Tipping
- DO tip 10% for satisfactory
service at a restaurant, or round up to
the nearest 100 HUF. For great service,
tip 15%-20%.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DO open a gift immediately
upon receipt.
- DO give flowers in
odd numbers but not 13. That's unlucky.
- DON'T give lilies,
chrysanthemums, or red roses.
5. Greetings
- DO shake hands upon
meeting someone. Men should wait for a
woman to offer a handshake first.
- DO kiss close friends
on both cheeks, starting with the left.
6. Visiting Someone's Home
- DON'T be more than
five minutes late.
- DON'T ask for a tour
of the house.
- DO expect to be asked
to take your shoes off.
- DO bring chocolate
or flowers for your hosts.
- DON'T bring wine. Hungarians
are often proud of their own wine.
7. Business
- DO make an appointment
two weeks in advance and have it put in
writing.
- DON'T try to schedule
meetings on Friday afternoons in the summer
or from mid-December to mid-January.
- DON'T be late. If you
think you're going to be late, call to
explain.
- DON'T cancel a meeting
at the last minute.
- DON'T be the one to
move the conversation to business. Before
getting down to business there is usually
a bit of small talk. Let your Hungarian
business associates be the ones to get
down to business.
- DON'T remove your suit
jacket without asking first.
- DO expect lots of eating,
drinking, and socializing during negotiations.
- DO have one side of
your business card translated into Hungarian
and put your last name before your first.
Also, include the founding date of your
company and any advanced academic degrees
you may have.
8. Socializing
- DO be open and honest
when conversing. Expect to be asked personal
questions but don't be offended. It's
just a way of getting to know each other.
- DON'T discuss politics
or religion.
- DO discuss sports,
music, food, and wine.
Since socializing is such an important
part of Hungarian culture, proper etiquette
is important. You'll blend in better
and make a far better impression if
you can follow their etiquette. Have
a wonderful trip to Hungary!
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