Irish Etiquette Tips
If you're at a pub in Ireland,
and you follow the lead of someone asking for a "drop of whiskey",
don't simply expect a drop! When asking for a "drop" of something
at an Irish pub, you're really asking for a whole glass, so be prepared
to drink up. Buying drinks for others is also a common courtesy in Irish
pubs, so maybe you want to send over a "drop of whiskey" to
the musician performing.
Ireland is a very friendly place to visit, with fairly relaxed etiquette.
However, there are a few topics to steer clear of when socializing and
there are some specific table manners considered polite, so read up on
some Irish etiquette below!
1. What to wear
- DO dress modestly, if you wish
to blend in. Bright colors aren't typically worn in Ireland. Subdued
colors, tweed, and wool are more common.
- DO wear a suit for business meetings. Women wear skirts and dresses
more often than pants.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO use the small plate next to
your dinner plate for the peelings of boiled potatoes.
- DO eat everything served to you if eating at someone's home.
- DON'T refuse a drink unless you absolutely must. It could be considered
rude.
3. Tipping
- DO tip at least 10% at a
restaurant. A tip will usually be included in the bill for bigger
groups.
- DO tip hotel porters €1 a bag.
- DO round up to the next € when paying a taxi driver.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DON'T give expensive
or flashy gifts.
- DON'T give lilies, which are for religious occasions. Avoid giving
red and white flowers, which symbolize death.
- DO politely refuse a gift when it's first offered. When giving
a gift to someone, expect them to do the same.
5. Greetings
- DO shake hands with everyone present
upon meeting, and maintain eye contact. Shake hands again upon leaving.
6. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO bring a little something for
your hosts, such as flowers, chocolate, cheese, or wine.
7. Business
- DO try to have a third party to
initiate business.
- DO be on time, but don't expect your Irish colleagues to be punctual.
- DO exchange business cards.
- DO practice your golf skills beforehand! Business is often conducted
on the golf course.
- DO be patient. Long-term planning and agenda-following are rare.
8. Socializing
- DO be friendly. When walking
around small towns and villages, it's common to say "hello"
to everyone you pass by.
- DON'T confuse Ireland with England. The Irish are
proud of their cultural differences with England, so steer clear
of making any comments that could be seen as offensive.
- DON'T discuss religion. It's a very sensitive subject to many
Irish.
9. At the Pub
- DO ask for a glass of something
if you want a half-pint, though pints are more common.
- DO understand that asking for a "drop" of something
(i.e. whiskey) means that you're actually asking for a glass of
it, not simply a drop!
- DO buy drinks for people. If someone has done you a favor,
ask the bartender to send over a drink. They don't have to tell
who it's from. It's also common to buy drinks for musicians playing
in a pub.
Although Ireland is a very laid-back place to visit, you'll
blend in much better if you know a bit about their etiquette. So leave
the loud clothes at home, pack some tweed clothing, and be prepared to
have a pint or two. Have a wonderful trip to Ireland.
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