Jordanian Etiquette Tips
When traveling in Jordan, the
best thing to do is to follow the lead of those around you. The culture
can vary depending on who you're with and where you are. At some Jordanian
homes, men and women will dine together, but in others they may not.
Some conservative Jordanian women are not comfortable shaking hands
with men, but some are perfectly fine with it.
Jordan is known for being a more liberal Middle Eastern country, and some
parts of Jordan are very Western and cosmopolitan. However, Jordan has
a deep respect for the King of Jordan and Islam, and is conservative in
many ways. Below is a list of Jordanian etiquette tips to help you out!
1. What to wear
- DO dress modestly. Men should wear a suit
and tie and women should wear a dress.
- DO dress more on the conservative side in general. Jordan is one
of the more liberal Middle Eastern countries and Amman is a modern
and cosmopolitan country, but it's still better to dress somewhat
modestly.
- DO dress more conservatively if visiting a Mosque.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO understand that sometimes men and women
will dine separately if you are invited to the home of someone who
is more traditional. However, in most restaurants and business situations
men and women will dine together.
- DO try to avoid eating with your left hand.
- DO understand that meals will usually start with mezza,
which are shared appetizers eaten with bread. People will either
take what they want and put it on their own plates, or dip the bread
into the mezza plates.
- DO note that people will smoke an argeeleh, or a water pipe, filled
with fruit-flavored tobacco, before a meal. Sometimes it will also
be smoked at the end of the meal, but it's more common to smoke
it beforehand.
- DO remember that many Arabs do not drink alcohol.
- DO try to eat everything on your plate, although if you are served
something that you don't like, it's acceptable not to eat it.
3. Tipping
- DO tip about 10%-15% in restaurants if
a service charge hasn't been added to the bill.
- DO round up when paying a taxi driver.
4. Gift giving
- DON'T give alcohol unless you are
certain that the receipient drinks.
5. Greetings
- DO shake hands upon meeting someone. However,
do note that some Muslim women might not wish to shake hands with
men. Because of this, wait for a woman to initiate a handshake.
Western women may shake hands with everyone, but do understand that
some conservative Muslim men might find it inappropriate.
- DO stand when someone enters the room and when they are introduced.
6. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO check to see if your host is wearing
shoes. If not, offer to remove your shoes.
- DO be careful if complimenting your host's belongings.
They might feel like they have to give you the item you are complimenting.
7. Business
- DO try to have a local contact to schedule
business meetings. It will probably save you time.
- DO understand that Jordanians are pretty laid back when it comes
to appointments. Your Jordanian colleagues might be late or even
cancel at the last minute. Confirm all appointments at least once!
- DO engage in small talk, but avoid making uninformed remarks about
religion and politics.
- DO have brochures printed in color and on glossy paper. It's considered
standard in Jordan.
8. Taboos
- DON'T say anything disrespectful about
Islam, Jordan, or the King of Jordan.
- DON'T engage in public displays of affection. However, it's common
for members of the same sex to hold hands, but it's just out of
friendship.
9. Photography
- DO be aware that some more religious
people might find it inappropriate to take pictures of women.
Jordanians are very friendly people and as a foreigner,
you won't be expected to remember all of the facets of their etiquette.
Just bear the above in mind and try to behave on the conservative side.
Above all, have a safe and wonderful trip to Jordan!
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