Lebanese Etiquette Tips
In Lebanon, both Western-style
cuisine and Middle Eastern cuisine are common.
When being served Western food, you may eat with
a fork and a knife; however, when being served
Middle Eastern cuisine, you should eat with your
hands. In order to eat with your hands, you should
use bread or lettuce to scoop the food up, but
never eat with your left hand! It's considered
unclean, so always eat with your right.
Lebanon is a unique country, because it's influenced
not only by traditional Middle Eastern culture,
but also French culture. Many parts of Lebanon,
such as Beirut, are very modern and cosmopolitan,
while at the same time, some parts of Lebanon
are more traditional and conservative. Throughout
your trip, you will learn that the Lebanese
are very friendly and enjoy having guests to
their country. Impress them by learning a bit
about their country and their etiquette!
1. What to wear
- DO understand
that dress codes may vary by region. In
cities like Beirut, Mt. Lebanon, and along
the coast, Western clothing is the norm.
- DO dress more conservatively when visiting
rural areas, Tripoli, or the south suburb
of Beirut, especially if you are a woman.
- DO dress neatly and stylishly.
- DO dress formally for business occasions.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO expect to
be offered food repeatedly, even if you
initially decline. It's considered customary
and polite to refuse.
- DO eat Western style food with a fork
and knife.
- DO eat Middle Eastern cuisine with your
hands. Use your right hand only, and scoop
the food up with bread or lettuce.
3. Tipping
- DO leave some
extra change at a restaurant, but note
that a 15% tip is usually included in
the bill.
- DO leave small change at a bar
as a tip.
- DO tip taxi drivers 10%.
4. Gesturing and Body Language
- DO signify
"yes" with a downward nod of
the head.
- DO signify "no" with
an upward nod of the head. This may be
accompanied by a click of the tongue.
Another way of signifying "no"
is by shaking your index finger side to
side with your palm facing out.
- DON'T use your index finger to point
or beckon someone. If calling to someone,
you may wave all of your fingers with
your palm face-down.
- DON'T give or receive things with your
left hand.
- DON'T show the bottoms of your feet.
- DON'T engage in public affection.
5. Greetings
- DO shake
hands upon greeting, and inquire about
the person's health and family.
- DO cheek kiss with close friends or
relatives. The cheek kiss is more of kissing
the air while brushing against the cheek.
In urban cities, all people will do this,
but in rural parts only members of the
same gender will do this, unless it's
a relative.
- DO keep in mind that observant Muslims
may not shake hands with the opposite
sex.
6. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO accept offers
for coffee or tea.
- DO bring a gift for the host, such as
flowers or a dessert.
- DO stick around for a while after you
are done eating. Leaving as soon as the
meal is over is considered rude. For lunch,
stay until about 4 PM, and plan to stay
all evening for dinner.
- DON'T discuss religion or politics in
a Lebanese home.
7. Language
- DO understand
that although Arabic is the official language
of Lebanon, French is also commonly used.
English and Armenian are also common languages
in Lebanon.
8. Business
- DO exchange
business cards in a business meeting.
- DO use personal contacts to your advantage
when doing business in Lebanon.
- DO arrange meetings in advance, although
meetings made on short notice might be
accommodated as well.
9. Religious Etiquette
- DON'T
enter a mosque or church while a service
is being held.
- DO seek permission before entering
a mosque, unless you're Muslim.
- DO take your shoes off before
entering a mosque.
- DON'T visit a mosque during Ramadan
unless you are Muslim.
Although the Lebanese are warm and welcoming
to tourists, it's important to learn a bit
about their etiquette out of respect for
their traditions. You'll also find that
you'll blend in much better! Enjoy your
trip to Lebanon!
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