Senegalese Etiquette Tips
If visiting a Senegalese home, don't overdo it
in terms of complimenting your host's belongings.
If you show a lot of admiration, your host might
feel inclined to give you what you're complimenting.
It's considered rude to turn down a gift in Senegal,
so if you are not comfortable accepting the item
as a gift, you should avoid being overly enthusiastic
about their belongings.
Senegalese people are very friendly, warm, and
polite. However, Senegal has many customs and
traditions, partially shaped by their religion.
Respect the country you're in and its heritage
by learning a bit about their etiquette. Below
is a list of Senegalese etiquette to help you
out on your trip.
1. What to wear
- DO dress modestly,
as Senegal is 95% Islam. Women should
wear long skirts and dresses. Long pants
for women are also becoming more acceptable
in urban areas.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO wait to be shown
to your seat before sitting down for a
meal.
- DO be aware that men and women sometimes
will eat at separate tables or even separate
rooms.
- DO sit cross-legged if the meal is served
on a low table or on the floor. Don't
let your feet touch the mat with the food
on it.
- DO wash your hands before eating. A
washing basin will be brought out before
you eat.
- DON'T start eating until the eldest
male begins.
- DO understand that food will usually
be served in a communal bowl, and it's
impolite to reach across the bowl to get
something from the other side. Eat only
from the part of the bowl that is in front
of you.
- DON'T use your left hand for eating.
- DO sample everything and save room for
second helpings.
- DO leave a little bit of food
left on your part of the communal bowl
when done eating. It means that you are
full.
3. Tipping
- DO tip about 10% at
restaurants and hotels.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DO wrap a gift nicely.
- DO give gifts with both hands. Never
just the left hand.
- DO follow the lead of those you are
exchanging gifts with. Sometimes they
are opened when they are received, sometimes
they aren't.
- DON'T refuse a gift. It may offend the
gift giver.
5. Greetings
- DO shake hands upon
meeting someone. Prolong the handshake
a bit, and ask about the person's health
and family.
- DO hug or cheek kiss with close friends.
Cheek kisses begin with the left cheek,
then the right, then the left again.
- DO be aware that very religious
Muslims may not shake hands with the opposite
sex. However in Senegal touching the opposite
sex is much more common than in other
Muslim and Arab cultures.
- DON'T use your left hand
when greeting. If your right hand is dirty,
wet, or occupied, you may offer your left
hand while saying, "Baal ma camon."
That means "Excuse my left hand"
in the Wolof language. Alternatively,
you may offer your right wrist if you
can't shake with your right hand.
- DO shake hands with all who are
present, including children.
- DO understand that the Senegalese
show that they are angry with someone
by refusing to greet the person.
6. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO bring a gift for
your hosts. Fruit, desserts, or tea are
nice gifts.
- DO expect a gift from your hosts if
you are staying for a long time.
- DO be careful about complimenting the
belongings in a Senegalese home. Your
hosts may feel obligated to give you what
you are admiring.
- DO remove your shoes.
- DO understand that due to water shortages,
toilets may not flush. You will have to
pour a bucket of water into the toilet
in order to flush it. It's perfectly acceptable
to ask for water before using the toilet.
Water is also used instead of toilet paper.
7. Business
- DO have one side of
your business card translated to French.
- DO present a business card with either
your right hand or both hands. Never the
left hand.
- DO treat business cards with respect.
Don't write on a business card handed
to you and make sure to take a moment
to look it over before putting it away.
- DON'T be too confrontational. Being
indirect can be seen as being polite.
- DO be flexible.
- DON'T rush the greeting process.
- DO understand that building relationships
is very important.
8. Conversation and Socializing
- DO understand that
the Senegalese tend to use lots of metaphors
and analogies when talking, as opposed
to being direct. They believe that indirectness
is polite.
- DO understand that nicknames are common
in Senegalese culture.
- DON'T look an elderly person straight
in the eye. It's a sign of disrespect.
In general, eye contact is not as commonly
maintained in Senegal as what you might
be used to.
- DO understand that in Senegalese culture,
crying is reserved for disasters and grieving.
If you are seen crying, Senegalese people
may flock to you to get you to stop crying.
Although Senegalese culture might be
somewhat different than what you are
used to, you will learn as you go. Be
well-mannered and avoid being confrontational,
and don't use that left hand! Have a
wonderful trip to Senegal.
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