Swiss
Etiquette Tips
If you want to give a gift to someone in Switzerland,
you might be tempted to give something extravagant.
However, in Switzerland, expensive or extravagant
gifts can be viewed as tacky - or worse, as a
sign of bribery. Instead, give something simple
but elegant, like wine, high quality chocolates,
or flowers.
The Swiss appreciate honesty and tolerance.
In order to respect the things most important
to them, you should learn about Switzerland's
culture and etiquette. Below is a list of dos
and don'ts for you to keep in mind on your trip
to Switzerland.
1. What to Wear
- DO dress
conservatively and neatly.
- DO wear a suit and
tie to a business meeting if you are a
man, or a suit or dress if you are a woman.
2. Food/Drinks
- DON'T drink until after
the first toast. The first toast is always
given by the host.
- DON'T rest your hands
in your lap during a meal. Keep your hands
on the table, but keep your elbows off
the table!
- DO use your fork to
cut food such as salad and potatoes instead
of a knife.
- DO break bread with
your hand, but most other food should
be eaten with utensils.
- DON'T ask for salt
and pepper if it's not already on the
table.
- DON'T smoke while eating.
- DO eat everything off
your plate and sample a little bit of
everything, especially when dining at
someone's home.
- DO put
your knife and fork side by side at the 5:25 position when you're done
eating to indicate that you are finished.
3. Tipping
- DON'T
feel obligated to tip. A service charge is included in restaurants and
hotels. However, in a more expensive restaurant, it is customary to
round the bill up or leave a few extra Swiss franks.
- DO give a tour guide
a small gift as opposed to a tip.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DON'T give anything
sharp as a gift, such as knives or scissors.
This signifies severing off the friendship.
- DO give gifts such
as books, candy, chocolate, pastries,
wine, or whiskey.
- DON'T give large or
expensive gifts. It can be seen as tacky
or even as a form of bribery.
- DON'T
give red roses or carnations, as they signify romantic intentions. White
chrysanthemums and white lilies should be avoided too, because they're
for funerals. Flowers should always be given in odd numbers.
5. Body Language and Gestures
- DO
maintain good posture.
- DON'T put
your hands in your pockets while talking to people.
- DON'T
chew gum, litter, or clean your nails in public.
- DON'T point your index
finger to your head. It's considered an
insulting gesture.
6. Greeting
- DO shake
hands upon meeting someone. Shake hands with all who are present,
including children.
- DON'T address someone
by their first name until invited to do
so. Use surnames and titles instead.
7. Language
- DO
recognize that Switzerland has four official languages: German, Italian,
French, and Romansch. Romansch is the least commonly spoken language in
Switzerland.
8. Visiting Someone's Home
- DON'T ask your hosts
for a tour of their home.
- DON'T leave a party
later than midnight.
- DON'T put your feet
up on the furniture.
- DO send flowers to
your hosts either before a party or the
next day, along with a thank you note.
- DON'T be
more than 30 minutes late to a dinner party, although showing up 15
minutes late is acceptable.
9. Business
- DO be on time and call
with an explanation if you are running
late.
- DO give a business
card to everyone you meet.
- DO be conservative
in business environments. There is not
much small talk and meetings tend to be
very orderly.
- DO be prepared to give
a gift in case you are offered one, although
gifts are not usually exchanged at business
meetings.
- DON'T use high pressure
sales tactics.
- DON'T
call a businessperson at their home unless it's an emergency.
10. Conversation
- DO be polite. You will
find that when talking to a waiter or
a store employee, the Swiss will greet
you with a "hello" or "excuse
me", and say "please" and
"thank you" a lot. It may seem
overly formal, but not speaking this way
can be viewed as rude.
- DON'T ask personal
questions, such as questions about salary,
age, or religion.
- DON'T
speak loudly in public, especially on a cell phone.
The Swiss are very proud of their country's
heritage, history, and culture. Because
of this, you must remember to respect Switzerland
and its people by following their etiquette.
Have a safe and happy trip to Switzerland!
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