Thai Etiquette Tips
Not
an expert with chopsticks? Not to worry, if
you are traveling to Thailand! Although the
Chinese brought chopsticks to Thailand a long
time ago, chopsticks are no longer widely
used there. Instead, use a fork and spoon,
pushing the food into your spoon with the
fork.
Thailand is a country with many customs and
traditions, and many are related to religion,
which is why it is so important to be respectful
and learn about their etiquette. Below are some
more etiquette tips to take with you on your
trip to Thailand!
1. What to Wear
- DO dress stylishly
and modestly. Keep your attire neat and
clean!
- DO wear nice pants
and a nice shirt with or without a tie,
if you are a man attending a business
function. For women, wear a nice dress
or a skirt and blouse for business functions.
Don't wear tank-tops.
- DON'T wear shorts,
short skirts, or tank-tops if you are
a woman entering a temple.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO use a fork and spoon
when eating. Chopsticks are no longer
traditionally used in Thailand. Hold the
spoon in your right hand and push the
food into your spoon with the fork.
- DO leave a little bit
of food on your plate when you're done
eating to indicate that you are full.
- DO put your spoon and
fork at the 5:25 position when you are
done eating.
- DON'T use your left
hand while eating.
- DON'T snap your fingers
or yell to get a waiter's attention when
dining out.
3. Tipping
- DO leave a tip in all
restaurants. Leave the tip with your change
leftover from the bill, or tip 10% at
a more upscale restaurant.
- DO tip a cab driver
by rounding up your total fare.
- DO tip hotel porters
10-20 baht.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DO give and receive
gifts with your right hand, not your left.
- DON'T open a gift until
later.
- DO give gifts such
as liquor, books, or sweets.
- DO thank the gift giver
with a wai.
5. Body Language and Gestures
- DO understand the meaning
of the "wai." Wai is when a
person puts their hands together close
to their body at chest level and gives
a slight bow. The higher the hands, the
more respectful the wai. It can mean "Hello",
"I'm sorry", or "Good-bye."
- DON'T point with one
finger. It's considered impolite.
- DON'T show affection
in public or even touch someone of the
opposite sex.
- DON'T pass something
over someone's head. The head is considered
sacred in Thailand.
- DON'T point with your
feet or use your feet to touch something.
Feet are considered dirty, because they
are the lowest part of the body.
- DON'T talk with your
hands or put your hands in your pockets
while talking to someone.
- DON'T step on a threshold
when going through a doorway. Step over
it instead. Thais believe that a spirit
lives in the threshold.
6. Greeting
- DO greet with a wai
if you feel comfortable. However, as a
foreigner, you aren't expect to initiate
with a wai, but you must always return
a wai to be polite.
- DON'T greet children,
waiters, vendors, etc. with a wai. If
they greet you with a wai, simply smile
and nod back at them.
- DO shake hands if not
offered a wai.
7. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO bring a gift for
your host. A nice host gift would be brandy,
flowers, cakes, fruit, etc.
- DO take your shoes
off upon entering a home.
8. Business
- DO expect men to primarily
conduct business, although women are beginning
to get more involved in Thailand's business
world.
- DON'T rush negotiations.
Business decision-making can be slow in
Thailand.
- DO be subtle. Directness
doesn't always go over well.
- DO expect to be addressed
by your title and first name, i.e. Mr.
Bob. This isn't to be rude or disrespectful.
- DO introduce colleagues
of a lower professional status before
introducing yourself in a formal business
introduction.
9. Visiting a Temple
- DO dress conservatively.
Women should wear long skirts or pants
and covered shoulders. Don't wear sandals.
- DON'T take photos at
a temple.
- DO remove shoes upon
entering.
- DON'T sit with your
feet pointing towards a Buddha. Sit cross-legged
or with your feet tucked under you.
- DON'T touch a monk,
give him anything, sit next to him, or
sit above him.
- DON'T touch a Buddha
image. They are sacred. Don't climb on
top of it, move it, or even sit next to
it to pose for a picture. It's disrespectful.
Although the above list of etiquette may
seem somewhat overwhelming, as a foreigner,
you won't be expected to partake in all
of their customs. Nevertheless, be conservative
in your actions, especially in temples since
they are such sacred places. Keep that in
mind and have a wonderful trip to Thailand!
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