Turkish Etiquette Tips
When
in Turkey, don't make the "OK" sign
with your fingers. It's considered to be a
very vulgar gesture in Turkey. Also, don't
put your thumb in between your index finger
and middle finger. It's another vulgar gesture,
much like "giving the finger" in
the U.S.
While some major Turkish cities are Westernized,
Turkey is still a Muslim country and much of
Turkey can still be conservative and traditional,
so it's important to learn about their etiquette.
Below are some etiquette tips to take with you
on your trip to Turkey.
1. What to Wear
- DO dress conservatively
for business occasions. A suit and tie
will do. In cities like Istanbul where
the summers get really hot, it is usually
acceptable to not wear a tie.
- DO wear
more conservative clothing outside of large cities, but shorts and short
sleeves are still acceptable.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO eat everything on
your plate. Some Turkish hosts might be
offended if you don't.
- DO put your knife and
fork side-by-side on your plate to indicate
you are done.
- DON'T use your left
hand when dining. The left hand is considered
unclean.
- DO be aware that smoking
while eating is common and you probably
shouldn't request that your dining partners
stop.
- DO pay for the meal
if you initiated the invitation. Splitting
the bill is not traditionally done in
Turkey.
- DO
reciprocate if someone invited you out for a meal. Invite them out to a
meal in return before you leave Turkey.
3. Tipping
- DO leave
a modest tip at a restaurant. Tips aren't expected, but they are
appreciated. In fancy restaurants, you may leave a 10%-15% tip.
- DO round
the fare up instead of tipping a taxi driver. For instance, if the fare
is YTL 5.7, round it up to YTL 6.
- DO tip hotel porters
50 cents to a dollar a bag.
4. Gift Giving and Accepting Gifts
- DO bring a gift from
your own country, such as food or crafts.
- DO remember that Turkey
is a Muslim country and not everyone drinks
alcohol, so keep that in mind before purchasing
an alcoholic beverage as a gift.
- DO give flowers, especially
roses or carnations.
- DO give gifts such
as pastries or home decor items, such
as a nice vase.
- DON'T leave the children
out when giving gifts. Buy them a little
something, too! Candy makes a great gift
for kids.
- DON'T open your gift
until later.
- DON'T
give a gift that is very expensive.
5. Body Language and Gestures
- DON'T stand with your
hands on your hips or in your pockets.
- DO be aware that in
more rural areas where people are more
conservative, men and women are expected
not to touch. Even shaking hands can be
taboo.
- DO understand that
"Yes" is a nod of the head going
downward and "No" is a nod of
the head going up, along with a sucking
sound made between your two front teeth.
- DON'T point at someone
with your finger.
- DO keep your feet flat
on the ground when sitting. Showing the
bottoms of your feet is considered insulting
in Turkey.
- DON'T make the "OK"
sign with your hand. It's a rude gesture
in Turkey.
- DON'T put
your thumb between your index and middle finger. It's also a vulgar
gesture.
6. Greeting
- DO shake
hands upon meeting someone. Shake hands with everyone present, including
the children, and shake hands with the elders first.
- DO exchange two kisses
on the cheek with friends and relatives.
7. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO be punctual when
invited to a dinner party.
- DO bring
the host a gift.
8. Business
- DO schedule meetings
one to two weeks in advance.
- DON'T try to schedule
appointments during Ramadan or during
July and August, which is when many Turks
take vacation.
- DON'T discuss business
right off the bat. First appointments
are often just to get to know each other.
Engage in small talk about things such
as soccer, families, and Turkish history.
Avoid bringing up politics.
- DO have your information
printed in English and Turkish.
- DO maintain eye contact
during meetings. Turks take eye contact
while speaking as a sign of honesty.
- DO create graphs, charts,
and other visual items for a presentation.
- DO remain patient,
as decision-making can be slow in Turkey.
- DO be ready to negotiate.
Turks will often suggest something extreme
in the beginning to see how you'll respond.
- DON'T use pressure
tactics, such as imposing a deadline.
- DO use both hands when
exchanging a business card.
- DO get business cards
printed with the information in Turkish
on one side.
- DON'T be
late. If you think you won't be on time, call to explain why.
Turkey has many customs, some having to
do with the fact that Turkey is a Muslim
country. Because many of their traditions
are based off religion, it's important to
respect the people of Turkey and their religion
by abiding by their etiquette. Have a wonderful
trip!
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