Ukrainian Etiquette Tips
In Ukraine, never leave an empty
bottle on a table, because it's considered bad
luck. Ukrainians tend to be somewhat superstitious,
so some of their etiquette stems from their superstitions.
Another big no-no in Ukrainian etiquette is greeting
someone over a threshold. It will bring bad luck
to your guest. Yikes!
Ukrainians are very friendly and welcoming to
guests to their country. One thing that Ukrainians
value is blending in. In fact, children are
often taught to "be like everyone else"
by their parents! So, as a guest to Ukraine,
you should abide by this as well and learn a
bit about their etiquette so you can fit in,
too!
1. What to wear
- DO dress formally
for business situations. Men should wear
suits with a white shirt and women should
wear a suit or dress.
- DON'T
wear shorts unless camping or hiking.
- DON'T wear shorts and
a t-shirt if going to a church, theater,
concert, or an upscale restaurant.
- DON'T wear sneakers unless
partaking in sports.
- DON'T wear a hat at a
church, home, office, or restaurant.
2. Food/Drinks
- DO partake in
toasts. Toasting is a very important part
of Ukraine's social culture.
- DO be prepared with an excuse
if you don't drink. If you don't drink
alcohol, blame it on an medical problem.
Ukrainians can sometimes be suspicious
of people who don't drink.
- DON'T clink glasses during
a toast if you aren't drinking alcohol.
- DON'T eat until the host
invites you to begin.
- DO rest your wrists at the edge
of the table.
- DON'T refuse a dish. Try
everything and save room for seconds.
Turning down food could be seen as rude.
- DON'T leave an empty bottle
on a table. It's considered bad luck.
3. Tipping
- DO tip about 15% at
a restaurant but make sure the gratuity
wasn't included in your bill.
4. Gift giving and Accepting Gifts
- DON'T open a gift upon
receipt. Open it later.
- DON'T give yellow flowers
or bouquets of flowers in an even number.
Even numbers of flowers are for funerals.
- DON'T
feel the need to give an expensive gift.
Thoughtfulness is the most important thing.
- DON'T give white Easter lilies. They
are for funerals.
- DO wrap the present nicely.
- DO give tickets to an opera or concert,
if you can obtain them. It would really
impress the recipient!
5. Gesturing and Body Language
- DON'T
make a fist with your thumb in between
your middle and index finger. It's considered
a very vulgar gesture.
- DON'T tap your temple
with your index finger. It means "crazy."
- DON'T gesture to someone
with your index finger. That is only acceptable
if beckoning a little kid or a dog.
- DON'T stand with your
hands in your pockets.
- DON'T ever hand anything
or shake hands over a threshold. It's
considered really bad luck.
6. Greetings
- DO greet with a strong
handshake along with direct eye contact.
- DO know the more informal greetings.
Close female friends will cheek kiss three
times, starting with the left cheek. Close
male friends pat each other on the back
and hug.
- DON'T shake hands over a threshold.
- DON'T shake hands with
gloves on. Remove them first.
7. Visiting Someone's Home
- DO take your shoes
off, and make sure your socks don't have
holes in them!
- DON'T put your feet on the furniture.
- DO bring a gift such as dessert, wine,
flowers, or something from your hometown.
- DO bring a gift for the children.
- DO dress casually.
8. Business
- DO have one side of
your business card translated into Ukrainian.
- DO include any advanced academic degrees
on your business card.
- DO expect business meetings to occur
during meals, including meals at a Ukrainian's
home.
- DO be patient and realize that doing
business in the Ukraine can take longer
than what you might be used to.
- DO engage in small talk in the beginning
of a meeting. Safe topics include computers,
cars, and soccer.
- DO be punctual.
- DO make appointments as far in
advance as you can. Ukrainians take last-minute
meetings less seriously.
9. Socializing
- DON'T confuse Ukraine
with Russia or Ukrainians with Russians.
- DO understand that feminism is
a little behind in Ukraine. Married women
are taken more seriously than single women,
and men still hold most of the high ranking
jobs. Men will usually hold a door open
for women, pour their drinks, light their
cigarettes, etc.
- DO understand that smoking is common
in Ukraine. If you smoke, it's polite
to offer cigarettes to those around you.
- DO behave conservatively when in public.
Don't be too loud.
- DON'T discuss politics.
- DON'T use slang
or profanity.
10. Photography
- DO ask permission
before photographing someone. Some ethnic
groups may decline due to religious
reasons and gypsies may try to charge
you money.
Throughout your trip to Ukraine, your best
bet is to act somewhat conservatively and
follow the behavior of those around you.
If someone initiates a toast, take part
in it. If going to a Ukrainian's home and
you notice their shoes are off, take your
shoes off, too. You'll catch on before you
know it! Have a wonderful trip to Ukraine.
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